Please…Give…More
The annual deluge of year end requests for contributions has begun in earnest. I received four letters at home yesterday, two at work, and three emails.
One of the letters and emails were from the same organization.
I think this year that I’ll make a stack of them and do an analysis after the holidays are over. I will certainly respond to some of them with a check, but others will not get more than an annoyed glance. Annoyed is the operative word. Like most people, my husband and I have a number of organizations that we support regularly because we are committed to their work, believe they are well-run and have a meaningful impact. There will be many other requests, though, from organizations either no connection to our lives, our issues, or our interests. But we’re still on their list – again and again and again.
But the biggest reason by far for the loss of donors is that many of them are just as angry as Ms. Medicus about the number of mailings they receive and other aggressive fund-raising tactics, experts say.
Join a live discussion with researcher Penelope Burk on December 4th for more on this topic.
The research findings and recommendations were music to my ears:
- Ask donors what method of communication they prefer and how frequently they want to hear from you.
- Put effort into learning what your donors want from you. Do they want information about an issue, information about activities, or simply a thank you letter?
- Reduce the frequency of solicitations.
- Finally, thank your donors personally and sincerely.
I’m going to keep my stack and report back after the holiday. I’m also going to contact the organizations that we do support and invite them to have a different kind of relationship with us – a relationship that fits our preferences and needs. Next year I’ll take that into consideration when it’s time to write the checks.

